I've Never Made Love

          "No baby you're just too young for love, these niggas don't want anything but what's in between your legs".

            Those were the words of my mother when I was just a little grasshopper. But you know how it is when you come across the first guy that tells you he loves you.  You think you see a side of him that no one else sees. You feel as if no one understands because they're outside looking in. Then, when you hear your friends tell you stuff you don't know who to believe because nine times out of ten they're probably just jealous of what you have, and they may even want your man on the low. But what I've learned is that-that one time that you should've listened, was to your mother. Now, that I've grown and learned so much more about Life itself, I really wish I would've listened to my mother.



        I love to laugh, so a guy that I can crack jokes with, and clown around with is a super plus to me. A guy that play fights with me and lets me win just so he can see the smile on my face. A guy that I know I can trust when he's away. A guy that'll take up for me, when I'm not around no matter who it is. A guy that understands me or won't stop trying to understand me. A guy that accepts me for who I am as a whole. A guy that goes out of his way just to make me happy. A guy that respects me, a guy that doesn't act funny when he's around other guys. A guy that won't give up on me, no matter how hard I make it. A guy that'll love me unconditionally. A guy that'll listen to me, spend time with me, and that will put me first.  A guy that holds me when I cry, and doesn't walk away and make me cry more.


Thats what all Females say we want right ? But we give it up so easy to the wrong guys. And we ignore the good ones, the ones that we all yearn for. We will dismiss the right guy, give all our attention to the wrong guy, and then when we .get hurt, we scream all men are the same. But if all men are the same then all women are also because we all continue to go through the same cycle with the same men.  we say what we want but when we get it, we don't know how to handle it because we're so used to wrong we don't know when it's right. but if we just give the right men a chance one time then maybe for once we'll know what it is to be treated as a women is supposed to be. As women we have to know our worth,  we have to know that there's certain things men can do, that we just can't. And no matter how much of a double standard it is, or how unfair it is, that's just life, and that's just how it is. If you respect yourself as a women first then the right guy will come along. I had to learn this the hardest way possible. I've been in the same relationship for five years, and I've never made Love !!!