WOMAN; an adult female person, as distinguished from a girl or a man.
2. a wife.
3. a female lover or sweetheart.
4. a female servant or attendant.
5. women collectively; womankind.
6. the nature, characteristics, or feelings often attributed to women; womanliness.
None of these definitions describe what a Woman is. No one in the world could ever describe what a woman is except for a woman.
Being a Woman is one of the most difficult things to do in this society especially today, but all in the same breath it's a blessing. See as a women we have to watch every thing we do.
AGE to a woman is huge. We don't fear getting old because no one wants to get old. we fear getting older, because the men in our society always go after the younger females. Society period always wants something young and fresh. We fear that as we age, we'll be forgot about, a figment of the past, old news, something that used to be. Why do you think you see all of these famous woman getting plastic surgery, and things to keep their body and face looking younger, because the pressure on an older woman is too much to deal with so no one wants to age. See, it's okay for a man to date a younger woman, but it's different for a woman to date a younger man.
WEIGHT is one of the biggest fears of any woman. Society makes every women feel as if you have to be skinny to be pretty. if you don't have a flat stomach then you mine as well roll over and die. they show all these video girls with flat stomachs, makeup, long weave, big butts, and chest, and those are the type of females that guys drool over. So what do we as women do ? we take pills to lose weight, make yourself throw up after meals, watch every little thing we eat, workout until we're dizzy, throw pounds of makeup on our face, buy super long weave and pretend it's really ours, get breast and butt implants, wear revealing clothes just so a guy can show us the same attention that he'll give the next, all to impress these ungrateful ass men who still no matter how hard you try will turn his head for the next.
PIERCINGS; now this is crazy.If a woman gets a piercing on her tongue she's a freak, piercing on her nipples she's nasty, piercing on her vaginal area she's a hoe, like damn if i get a piercing on my knees what that mean I like to be on my knees all the time ??? smh it's crazy.
Then on top of that, we have to watch who we talk to, watch who we have sex with, watch how we dress, we have to watch everything, and every aspect of our lives just so we won't be judged to be something we're not it's crazy. But Men can go out and do it to whoever they want and be considered "The Man".
But what I learned is that regardless of the double standards , regardless of society's point of view on life, we can't let those things determine who we are as women. The sad thing about it is that Men aren't even our biggest critics, neither is society. We as women are our own biggest critics. everywhere I go I see females not liking each other over these men, or over petty shit. I see women disrespecting not only other women but themselves, which gives men free rain to disrespect us. We have to do better then that man. we have to be better than that. We have to carry children in our bodies for nine months out of our lives, no man could ever know what that feels like. no man will ever know the bond a women builds with her child while it's in her womb. no man will ever know the emotions we feel when we're lied to, or when we're in Love, or hurt. No man will ever know how deeply a women loves. That's why I don't judge females any more, because as a women, I know how it is. You'll never know the story behind a women's eyes. she can have the biggest smile on her face but crying internally. I laugh to hide the pain.
Although being a woman is hard it is also a blessing, that's why I will never wish I was nothing less. Women will always be emotionally, and mentally stronger than males. We as women just have to be better !!!!!!
